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Check out this interview I did for the Sixty and Me Show with dating coach Lisa Copeland. Fortunately, in some ways, there has never been a better time for women over 60 to be in the dating world.We discuss what is different about dating after 60 and how men and women our age often want different things from life, having different emotional needs and in many ways speaking a “different language.” You might need to re-learn how to flirt with men, how to make a man feel good about himself, and how to present your most confident and alluring self in the dating world. You really cannot give up after just a few dates, that you have to relax, meet lots of guys and enjoy the process. The rise of divorce among “silver splitters” means there are more single older men – and there might be more great guys out there than you might expect at first glance, especially if you give them a chance.In the end, this is no time to be a traitor to your generation.Instead, find someone your own age who’s even hotter.The exact ages and differentials vary, but each one reinforces one important point: Women get less valuable as they age, while men just get to enjoy the ride.
” Let’s revise that to add that if someone wants you to be the May to their December or vice versa, don’t let ‘em.In other areas of life, we gesture toward valuing things beyond the superficial. Some older men have this secret other option, whereby they get to opt out of the system: When they acquire enough money or power, they can basically trade that capital for the thing women have that’s valued by society: youth and beauty.For most of us, in dating those things kind of go out the window, but then people tend to pair off with partners at about the same attractiveness level that they occupy. The pretense of finding someone who can be a partner and equal disappears; women both young and old get to see that all that really matters is how you look in a bikini.As we get older, the things we want out of life often change, and we have less time to play games and be superficial – this is a good thing!But it still helps to know about the emotional languages and occasional disconnects that come up between older men and women.